Eddie's Mental Dink - Series 1

EDDIE’S MENTAL DINK — SERIES 1

Self-Confidence

Where the real game begins: inside your head.

S elf-confidence is the foundation of mental performance. Every player — from social participants to competitive athletes — benefits from a mindset grounded in belief, calm, and personal assurance. Confidence determines how we respond to mistakes, how quickly we reset, and how willing we are to fully commit to the next point.

Why Self-Confidence Matters

  • There is a direct and powerful link between self-confidence and performance success.
  • Confident athletes make clearer decisions, recover faster from errors, and play with greater freedom.
  • Confidence is not arrogance — it is quiet inner trust that allows you to perform without fear.
  • For social players, confidence supports enjoyment and growth.
  • For competitive players, confidence is the platform on which advanced skills can flourish.

Federer’s Mindset

Roger Federer once shared a remarkable insight about performance — a reminder that even at the highest level, success is built on acceptance, reset, and recommitment:

“Perfection is impossible. Across 1,526 singles matches, I won almost 80% of my matches — but only 54% of all the points I ever played. When you lose every second point on average, you learn not to dwell on every shot. You teach yourself to think: ‘Okay, I faulted — it’s only a point.’ That mindset frees you to fully commit to the next one.”

This captures the essence of true confidence: commit fully, release quickly, refocus immediately.

Pickleball moment on court

Building Your Self-Confidence

  • Celebrate small wins: confidence grows through accumulation, not sudden transformation.
  • Detach from perfection: mistakes are information, not identity.
  • Reset rapidly: take a breath, ground yourself, and recommit to the next point.
  • Stay present: confidence lives in this moment, not the last one.

About the Author

Eddie Baghdikian is a graduate of Deakin University’s Graduate Diploma of Sport Management and the Australian College of Applied Psychology’s Graduate Diploma of Counselling. With a long-standing passion for performance psychology and player development, Eddie brings a practical, accessible approach to helping athletes build self-confidence, strengthen focus, and enjoy the game with greater clarity and composure.

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